5 Tools to Tap into Pussy Power

Desiring to tap into your Pussy power but don’t know where to start? Today I am sharing five tangible tools for connecting with your Pussy power so you can use it to create what you are meant to in this world. I’m also diving into how Mother Earth is the source of our feminine energy, why it is essential that we tap into and embody our Pussy power, and the importance of safety, love, and compassion in this work. Start implementing these tools today and see how much tapping into Pussy shifts your life!

Reclaiming Pussy is a Privilege 

Before we get into these powerful tools, I want to acknowledge the immense privilege I have had to obtain this knowledge from my beautiful teachers and how I have safety and space in my life to practice and embody it. It’s such a fucking privilege to reclaim Pussy and to have invested in all the healing that has brought me here.

It’s a privilege to live in a place where I can reclaim my sexuality and Pussy power, something not all women and humans around the world have. While this may be a privilege, reclaiming this core, essential, divine part of ourselves is also our fucking birthright. As we move into these five tools, take a moment to feel the blessing and privilege that it is to embody our Pussy power, to be who we are meant to be, and to do what we are meant to do in this world.

Honoring Mother Nature and Feminine Expression

Our Great Mother Earth is at the core of Pussy power and is the source of our feminine (or yin) energy. Mother Earth, or Great Mama Pussy as I like to call her, is why I do this work. The first way in which Pussy called my name was through nature. She is why I dedicate my blood, sweat, tears, and Pussy juice to bringing Pussy Centered Living to the world and why I help women and humans tap into this for themselves.

When we are tapped into our Pussy power, this brings the yin and yang energy into balance - the balance that has been disrupted by 5,000 years of patriarchy. This historical repression of the feminine has created toxic distortions in our world. Acknowledging this helps us understand that reclaiming our feminine power is the ultimate solution. 

Our Pussy power also grounds us in our truth and guides us to navigate our emotions in healthy, empowering ways. Our internal world reflects our external reality and our emotions shape our actions and the frequency we are putting out into the world. Limiting beliefs, often rooted in trauma and fear, affect our ability to fully embody our true essence. Addressing these beliefs is crucial for showing up powerfully in the world.

By tending to our emotions and shifting our beliefs, we align more closely with our beautiful Pussy-centered truth.

Healing the world begins with us because our Great Mama Pussy can take care of herself. We need to heal and create harmony and balance within ourselves...which will naturally extend to the world around us. Anchoring into our Pussy power allows us to create a thriving, balanced world.  

How Can You Start Tapping Into Your Pussy Power?

Let’s start with this simple way to tap into your Pussy power:

Step 1: Being present with her.  Breathe into her, bring your awareness down to her, and feel her. 

Step 2: Listen to her. Tune into her wisdom and guidance. Listen with not only with your sense of hearing but with your body, knowing, sensations, and feelings. Guidance will not come every time you listen to Pussy but as we continue to tune in and listen, we will eventually hear her wisdom.

Step 3: Take action. Whatever that guidance was, take action on it.

Step 4: Rest. Even if that is just to take a moment to take a breath, rest, and come inwards. 

Step 5: Repeat. Simple but definitely not necessarily easy. 

5 Steps to Help You Unlock Your Pussy Power 

This second framework will support us in the deeper work needed to follow the first simple framework of Pussy power. I’ve developed this simple yet potent practice over time through teaching, coaching, and personal practice. It’s the backbone of sustainable creation – a core part of Pussy power. These five steps will help us anchor into our true power and create sustainably in our lives!

Phase 1: Awaken

The first step in this framework is what I call awaken. This is where we become present with two things: what we desire and what we don’t desire. We might realize we don't like feeling disconnected from our bodies, pleasure, and sexuality. We awaken to the fact that we have been bypassing a very essential core part of who we are which is our sexuality, sensuality, and Pussy. 

In this awakening, we also discover our deepest desires. We may desire to be in tune with our bodies, to have epic orgasms with someone we love, or to be confident and powerful. Awareness is the first step and when we awaken to the fact that we can tap into our Pussy power, all aspects of our lives can drastically benefit. As Mama Gena says, “Pussy is the greatest untapped resource on this planet.”

As we awaken to our desires we might be met with fear and resistance. These are the parts of ourselves that are freaked the fuck out and think it is not safe to have that desire. They are the parts of us that are like “Hell no, we are not going to do that, that’s dangerous.” We can also feel these resistances as sensations in our bodies like:

• Constriction
• Tension
• Nausea
• Dread
  

These feelings and thought patterns reveal our inner resistance...but it's essential to recognize that fear and desire are two sides of the same coin. Wherever there is a desire there is also always going to be fear. But our desires are the leading force of our Pussy power, calling us to create and manifest our deepest wants (from our soul and Pussy).

Pussy does not send us desires that we cannot have – although the path to our desires might not be easy or quick. The key is to not be stopped by fear or resistance but to keep moving forward, embracing and integrating all parts of ourselves, while also using emotional regulation. This is how we achieve our Pussy, soul, and heart-led desires – no matter what.

Phase 2: Integrate

The next phase is called integrate. Instead of trying to release or get rid of the parts of ourselves that we really don’t like, we turn towards them. These parts will not go away when we push them to the side, they just grow stronger. They need our full presence and love just like a child seeking attention. When we bring our presence to Pussy and hold all her shame, trauma, anger, and pain with love, that’s integration. This process truly heals and creates long-lasting, deep transformation. 

By embracing and accepting all parts of ourselves, we move through our fear and resistance, making it safe to embody our Pussy power. Once we have integrated these resistant parts by holding them with love, we create space for transformation. This allows us to embody our true power and move forward.

Phase 3: Rebirth

Next, we move into phase three which is rebirth. This phase is about choosing how we want to show up in the world in each and every moment. We hold the answers to these questions:

• What is the emotion that I want to feel? 
• What is that frequency that I am holding within myself? 
• Who am I as the human who creates what I want in the world?
• Who am I as a woman who listens to her Pussy and then follows that guidance? 

In rebirth, we anchor into being the person who already has the desire we awakened to. At the core of every desire is a feeling, a state of being. Whether it's feeling free, fucking amazing, in harmony, in pleasure, or deeply connected – all of these feelings drive our desires.

In this phase, we embody the woman who already has her desires by aligning our feelings, thoughts, and actions with that identity. Identity work is powerful because it dictates how we think, feel, and act. By choosing an empowered identity, we influence our reality and create the life we desire. This is something I work deeply on in The School of Pussy Centered Living and with all my clients. Our identity shapes everything, and by stepping into the woman who already has what she desires, we bring those desires to life. 

Phase 4: Create

In the “create” phase, we now take action based on who we rebirthed into. Creation comes from who we are being, so once we've anchored into our empowered identity, we act on it. Whether it's taking a nap, dancing before doing chores, or building a website for your business, the key is to act on the guidance received during the rebirth phase. Taking action solidifies our desires into reality.

Phase 5: Rest and Celebrate

Our fifth phase is rest & celebrate! This phase is crucial for creating in alignment with Pussy, respecting her natural cycles and rhythms. Rest, replenishment, rejuvenation, and coming inwards are all essential parts of the creation process. If we just keep creating then we might end up burnt out and losing touch with our inner guidance. This phase correlates with the menstrual phase of Pussy, where we reflect, renew, and prepare for the next cycle of creation. Honoring this cycle ensures sustainable and harmonious creation.

Celebrating ourselves is also vital for sustainable creation. By celebrating, we train our brains to do two things:

1. To look at the good things. Our brain is wired by default to look at the “bad” things because it is always looking out for danger. The number one purpose and desire for our brain is to make sure we survive. We are also conditioned as a society to talk about the things that are not going well. Celebrating helps retrain our brains so that we can thrive. The more that the brain sees evidence that things are going well, the more that we see it and the easier it becomes to see. 
   
   
2. It changes where we are getting our validation from. If we want to keep showing up in the world in pleasurable and empowered ways, we need to have a source of self-validation. Everything has to come from within. We are conditioned to work for external validation but when we celebrate ourselves we are moving that focus of to internal validation. This is more sustainable and keeps us down the path of our desires. 

By following this framework, we can tap into the profound power of Pussy, creating a life that is vibrant, radiant, and deeply pleasurable. Embrace this journey with love and compassion, and remember to celebrate every step along the way. Your Pussy power is a potent force – honor it, embody it, and let it transform your life. If you want to dive into this deeper, I invite you to listen to the “Tuning into Pussy Power” guided meditation in this episode of the Pussy Centered Living Podcast. This 15-minute meditation starts at 49:55!

As a reminder, these are the foundations of what I teach in all of my programs and coaching. What I shared is simple, yet it is definitely not necessarily easy. Knowing something is one thing, but actually implementing it and putting it into practice is another. That’s where having a teacher, a coach, a guide, a community, and a sisterhood is incredibly valuable for support in integration, embodiment, and implementation.

I teach all of this in my life-changing program “The School of Pussy Centered Living”. It is a truly transformative program where you reclaim your body, your Pussy, your pleasure, your desire, and your inherent sexual nature. You’ll gently heal trauma while reawakening the sensual, sexual woman you truly are, empowered to create your most vibrant, radiant, and deeply pleasurable life!