Sex and God with Anna Loza

Can you imagine how nourishing your life would be if satisfaction and joy were your dominant frequencies? This isn’t just a far-off dream but a reality available to all of us – no matter what our past conditioning looks like. Today we're talking with my first ever feminine business coach, Anna Loza, for a conversation about masculine and feminine energetics, what it really means to give to yourself first, and how orgasm + pleasure can serve as powerful spiritual gateways. Anna also gives us a few potent practices for deepening our connection with P u s s y and God!

Connection with God

P u s s y and God - two words that you might not often hear together, yet they are deeply intertwined in ways that our society has overlooked or suppressed. Our orgasm is actually much more than just physical pleasure it can be a:

• A sacred point to God
• A direct experience of divine energy and consciousness

For many of us, our relationship with God has been clouded by religious conditioning or feelings of unworthiness. We’ve been taught to see God as something external, far away, or unattainable. But Anna’s approach to spirituality is about bringing that connection into our bodies, especially through the portal of pleasure. When we embrace orgasm as a spiritual practice, we invite divine love to flow through us, clearing away layers of resistance, self-judgment, and limiting beliefs. Anna emphasizes that the ecstatic energy of an orgasm can act as a reset, a moment of pure presence that reconnects us with our true nature and the infinite love that is always available to us.

Through practices like breathwork, conscious touch, and simply allowing yourself to feel pleasure without shame, you can start to experience your sexuality as a direct line to God. Whether you’re in a solo practice or a loving partnership, every orgasm becomes an opportunity to remember that you are not separate from the divine—you are an embodiment of it.

Sexuality as a Healing Modality

Sexuality often carries a heavy load of shame, fear, or trauma, but it also holds the key to profound healing and self-empowerment. Anna and I discuss how P u s s y centered living isn’t just about having more sex or more orgasms - it’s about cultivating a deep, loving relationship with your body and using pleasure for transformation.

Our sexuality is not something to be hidden or repressed - it is a powerful modality for healing and awakening.

Anna shares her journey of integrating orgasmic energy into her own healing practices, using it to:

• Move through emotional blocks
• Shift limiting beliefs
• Rewire patterns stored in the body
  
  

This isn’t about chasing an orgasm for the sake of release, it’s about consciously engaging with your body’s pleasure as a tool for growth and self-discovery. The orgasmic state opens the nervous system, slows down the brain, and allows access to the subconscious mind, making it an ideal space for deep transformation.

One simple way to start reconnecting with your sexuality as a healing modality is to place a hand over your P u s s y, clothed or unclothed, and just breathe. Feel the warmth of your hand, tune into your sensations, and allow yourself to receive whatever is present in that moment. This gentle act of self-connection can be the beginning of a profound journey back to yourself. Whether you’re massaging the external area, engaging in breathwork, or allowing yourself to simply feel without judgment, these practices can help you release stored emotions and reclaim the wholeness of who you are.

P u s s y is not just a physical part of our bodies, it’s an energy center, a gateway, and a source of immense power. By turning toward this part of ourselves with love, curiosity, and intention, we can transform not only our relationship with our bodies but also our relationship with life itself.

Feminine & Masculine Energetics

The balance of feminine and masculine energies is a recurring theme in our conversation, and it’s an essential aspect of living a P u s s y centered life. In our culture, we’re often conditioned to favor the masculine, which is action, productivity, and external validation....while suppressing the feminine qualities of intuition, receptivity, and inner wisdom. BUT it's the integration of both that brings us into harmony.

Anna beautifully describes the feminine energy as rising from the ground up, moving through P u s s y, the womb, and the heart, while the masculine energy flows down from above, meeting the feminine at the heart space. This union of energies is where healing occurs, where we find balance, and where our true power resides.

Living P u s s y centered means embracing your feminine nature, allowing yourself to receive, to slow down, and to nourish your inner world. It’s about listening to the whispers of your body, following the pull of your desires, and trusting your intuition. At the same time, it’s also about honoring the masculine within you - the parts that bring structure, direction, and support to your dreams.

For many women, healing the relationship with the masculine is a crucial part of this journey. It’s about releasing old wounds, shifting from over-giving to balanced reciprocity, and learning to receive support from both the divine masculine and the human masculine. When we find this balance within ourselves, it reflects in every aspect of our lives—from our relationships to our businesses, and everything in between. If you want to learn more about healing the masculine, check out these posts:

• Healing Trauma, Creating Safety, and Upgrading the Masculine Imprint
• The Sexiest Love Affair I’ve Ever Had

Feminine Business

Feminine business is not just about running a business....it’s about doing it in a way that honors your wholeness, your intuition, and your unique gifts. Anna’s work as a feminine business coach is all about guiding women to bring their soul’s purpose into the world in a way that feels aligned, nourishing, and true to who they are.

When I first started working with Anna, I was feeling the pull to expand beyond my work as a birth coach and dive into deeper, more intimate topics like sexuality and pleasure. But I was still holding back, unsure if I could really step into this new territory. Anna was the push I needed, she encouraged me to change my Facebook group’s name to P u s s y Centered Living, a bold and scary move that marked the beginning of my true soul’s work.

Feminine business is about allowing your business to be an extension of your essence. It’s about merging strategy with soul, honoring the cycles of your body, and creating from a place of wholeness. It’s not about hustling, pushing, or sacrificing your well-being for success; it’s about letting your pleasure and intuition guide you every step of the way.

As you reflect on this conversation, let it serve as a reminder that your journey toward living P u s s y centered is about much more than just sexuality, it’s about embracing the wholeness of who you are. By reconnecting to your pleasure, aligning with your feminine and masculine energies, and nourishing yourself first, you unlock a path of deep transformation. The power of orgasm, energy, and spiritual connection are gateways to reclaiming your true essence and stepping into a life that is joy-filled, abundant, and in alignment with your soul’s purpose.